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how to move to new york city in 5 months.

that’s a bold quote.

it’s important to keep in mind that it can  be done. it’s a matter of mastering your chi , saving a lot of money and embracing the imminent unknown.

whether one admits that this is what has to happen is neither here nor there, in my case, this is what has to occur. most likely in that order.

ben popken at consumerist.com wrote a fantastically honest, blunt and helpful article containing his experiences and his advice on doing just this. anybody moving to any large city riding on the fuel of big dreams, the fumes of uncertainty and the support of a wing and a prayer ought to give this piece some consideration. (the comments that follow are also worth the time taken to read.)

his first comment poses a self-reflective inquisition on the reader:

DO I REALLY NEED TO MOVE TO NEW YORK?

“Answering no to this is the easiest way to avoid the inevitable hassle and heartache of. New York City is a glittering emerald slut, full of potential and promise, but it can also be a total bitch. Nightlife is down ever since they enacted that cabaret law. The city’s conduits of power are increasingly rusty and incestuous. Parts of the city are becoming, or already are, Disney versions of themselves, like the Lower East Side and Times Square, respectively. There’s lots of other great cities in the world. The Bay Area has nicer weather. Philadelphia has dirt cheap rents. Even so, New York is awesome and is still the capital of the world for many a human endeavor. Let’s move!”

to address this admonition personally, i asked myself this- and honestly, the most prudent and sagacious answer is “no”. not so much an emphatic “no”, just an honest one. ostensibly my music is the main reason i’d want to move, and since that’s slowly becoming an enormous part of my everyday life, my reasons for wanting to move are actually quite weighty. that being said, with the right management of time and resource, i could probably do most of it from the lap of philadelphia and spend far less money in rent.

but i hate the commute.  2 hours is easier spoken than traveled, at least for me. furthermore, i hate leaving. many of my closest musical comrades are seated firmly in that concrete paradise, and frankly, i became infatuated with the city 6 years ago and haven’t lost that fire yet.

so, ABAAP is very necessary. following mr. popken’s veritably awesome advice, we should consider loosely the  Maslow hierarchy principling as it relates to survival on foreign soil. (i hate to make this process appear so necessarily scientific, but for posterity’s sake, we’ll get all studious)

in this system, each level is essentially funded by the levels below it, the bottom-most level being our primitive needs like food, shelter, sex (debateable and some how detached from the love & belongingness level)

  • gotta have enough money to get there.
  • gotta have a reason to be there.
  • gotta have a place to live.
  • gotta have a formula to generate income at a reasonable clip once there.
  • gotta budget that income properly.

after that bottom rung is worked out, the subsequent levels will invariably work themselves out.

so yeah, i’m giving it a shot again. above all my practical reasons for doing this sits an umbrella that is ultimately me challenging myself to be better at life than i have allowed myself to be in the past. whether the move would disprove that notion is up for debate, but i’d definitely be debating on the Pro side.

this blog is not about moving to new york city, so i may not update regarding this process with any regularity, but i will consider it in writing from time to time, and there will be some sort of culmination by august 31st, 2007.

let us hope for everything but disappointment.

signing off,

d*mcNAsty.


8 Responses to “how to move to new york city in 5 months.”


  1. 1 donald williams April 30, 2007 at 5:54 pm

    5K and an apt will do you good

  2. 2 Brit May 7, 2007 at 11:56 pm

    this is absolutly an amazing idea. My life goal is to move to NYC and this is an awsome way to do it!

  3. 3 romeo May 22, 2007 at 12:58 am

    guys ima frm uae…i happen 2 visit ur site….i wish 2 cum thr after my post graduation…i wanna stay in ny….so cud u tell me if i cud get a green card..if i stay they for well say maybe 5 yrs…iam an indian….if u cud say abt tat green card procedure i wud be thankful

  4. 4 Rains May 22, 2007 at 7:35 pm

    Hi, I just came across your blog and wish you would write more! I am eager to hear about how your plan to move to NY is going. I am moving there at the tail end of this summer so I can really relate, I’m going to be soooooo broke! Hope you update soon!

  5. 5 Georgia July 1, 2007 at 11:52 pm

    Amazing~
    Hope everything is working out for you up there.
    Holla back boy~

  6. 6 Nick July 20, 2007 at 8:56 pm

    I just did the exact same thing you are doing now. And NO, it was not easy.

    I blogged the whole thing for all my college buddies. They loved hearing about how a southern guy like me would survive in NYC. Most thought Manhattan would chew me up and I’d be back home in a month.

    I’m settled in now. February 2007 to July 2007 have been the craziest months of my life. But I’ll always remember my big move to NYC!

    GOOD LUCK!

  7. 7 Kris September 16, 2007 at 11:56 pm

    Look! This is what you do. I moved from Brooklyn and im moving back soon. You get a financial advisor or an accountant, someone who knows how to manage money that you can sit down with. Then PLAN out a way you can purchase an apartment. The worst thing you can do is go out on a whim. You’ll be spending time and worrying about money for your next meal than enjoying the city life. . . which is the point of your move.

  8. 8 Joe January 4, 2008 at 12:56 pm

    I moved to NYC from small town USA in 2005. It can be done, but don’t expect to get an apartment without a job, no matter how much money you have. Landlords are very picky about their tenents, especially about their jobs. My best advise would be to find a sublet. It’s really the only way to go until you have a job. Even after I was here for 6 months, with my job, my landlord was still skeptical of me, and required not only first months and deposit, but he wanted last months rent too. Expect to pay TONS if you want to live in Manhattan. My wife and I are in our mid twenties, and make 130k+ combined, and it’s barly enough to have a one bedroom and have any money left over. We moved out to Brooklyn after 1.5 years in the city.


 

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